Whenever someone talks about the challenge of change, I hear David Bowie in my head. “Ch-ch-ch-ch-changes….” The second line of that song turns out to be “turn to face the strange.” I rarely hear song lyrics correctly, so this was news to me, but it seems very appropriate.
No one likes change. That was the headline from Dr. Deborah Gilboa of Ask Dr. G fame, when I saw her speak recently. I immediately bristled a little bit. I like change. I like trying new things, like to have multiple things going on…what is she talking about? Then she gave the example of finding a new job. That’s a process we have to actively participate in for someone to offer us something new. We research the company; we interview, sometimes with way too many people; we think about the tasks, the location, our goals, the salary, the work environment…. And yet, when we get the offer, universally the reaction is to back up and think of all the reasons we don’t want the job. That hit home.
I joined WrkSpot just a couple of months ago. I had been talking to them for several months before that. I’d done research, talked to people at the company, talked to friends in the industry, talked to my family, compared it to other opportunities I had, and decided this was the job I wanted. And yet when our COO offered me the role, my first thought was “Yikes! Do I really want to do this? What am I thinking? Is there a good lunch place near their office?” Dr. G is right. Change is hard and no matter how excited we may be, or how much we value the new job, technology, car, or even haircut, part of us wants to put on the brakes.
Now imagine how your team feels when you tell them you’re implementing new hotel operations software, or any new technology. That’s a situation you’re likely to be in repeatedly, if the forecasts are right: Hoteliers will be looking for technology solutions more than ever before. Even if this new technology changes just a small part of your team’s processes; even if it makes their job easier and helps them be more effective; even if it reduces their paperwork and their trips to the front desk; you are still asking people to make a change. And you probably feel at least a little bit of that reluctance yourself, even if you were the one who made the decision to buy and implement the new software.
And then what happens? We…they…you…find reasons that this change is not good. “The software will not help…. Our process is fine….We like post-its….We already catch most problems before guests are aware.” And my personal favorite: “I know how to do this.” The corollary to, “I know how to do this” is, “I don’t know how to do that.” But we often don’t articulate that part. And that’s really the part that intimidates us. That’s what triggers our fight or flight reflex. Because we all know that learning something new is a risk. Maybe just a little one, but still a risk. It will take more time and energy. We will have to think about it. Like driving to a new workplace, we can’t just be on autopilot. And we might not be good at it right away.
So what do we do? I’m borrowing heavily from Dr. G here, but also relaying what has worked for me as a team or division leader, and even a bakery owner, in previous roles.
The bottom line is, remember that change isn’t easy, even when it will make things better. Those reasons your staff finds not to do things differently are often not excuses. They’re telling you, “This feels uncertain. We don’t know how to do the thing you’re asking us to do, or even if we can.” Your team needs you to help them, “turn to face the strange.”